Navigate messy, everyday moments with grace and confidence - so you stay radiant pink, unshakable, and fully yourself as you pour from your overflow into others.
This is your safe space and "how-to" cheatsheet to: Love yourself AND others boldly & give generously without guilt, resentment, or exhaustion from being the strong one.
Maybe you're wondering if you can truly navigate complex relational dynamics without shutting down, slipping back into the role of the peacemaker who carries everyone’s calm or being the strong one who carries the room on your back.
Maybe you question whether it’s possible to stop second-guessing yourself in the moment… to finally tell the difference between overgiving and true neighborly love. And maybe you’re not sure if those old patterns — the ones that drain your energy and hijack your emotions — can actually lose their grip and stop pulling your into anger, resentment, exhaustion and grief.
You can. The answer lives in being who you truly are - your pink flamingo self.
When you learn to embody your God-aligned Pink Flamingo identity, you stop negotiating with the old version of you. You move through difficult moments with poise, self-honoring clarity, and a confidence that feels like oxygen.
because I lived it for over 20 years. I was brilliant, strong, capable, and dependable, yet slowly poured into others until I ran dry. Like a flamingo losing its color when it gives more than it receives, I slowly faded from vibrant daughter to depleted servant each time I gave too much, carried too much, swallowed my emotions and sacrificed too much.
It took two corporate burnouts, one minstry burnout and almost losing my mind and life for me to ask God to show me a different way. At the feet of Jesus, I learned the Pink Flamingo Way: how to truly "love my neighbor AS myself". It restored my pink and realigned me to walk God's original design for me.
Through scripture, mentorship, and God’s gentle correction in the everyday moments, I began relearning who I actually was beneath the expectations: a 🦩 Pink Flamingo - vibrant pink, discerning, wise, and deeply rooted in love that doesn’t require self-abandonment.
I learned how to navigate relationships while loving myself AND others. I studied my triggers and rewired how I responded in messy moments. I practiced pouring without emptying myself. I rebuilt a life where my pink came back - not through performance, but as a natural expression of who God designed me to be.
That is the authority I bring. I don’t just teach identity. I resurrect it. I guide people back to the pink they lost, the brilliance they forgot, the dreams and hopes they shelved and the God-aligned way of being that makes everything in life easier, truer, and more peaceful.
"It helped me discover a lot about my identity. I've gotten so many valuable and practical tools and strategies on how to anchor myself in the identity that God gave me and show up as my truest self in different areas of life. I know God sees me. I know how I should show up as his daughter first, and what He has called me to do. It's like a navigation group with Chanel being used by God as the navigator to help us."— C
Limited spots available in each flock
Because you've outgrown your old framework for being and you're still learning a new way of being. You’ve been doing the deep inner work and learning to pour into yourself. You’re committed to loving God, loving yourself, and loving your neighbor without betraying who you are. So, you're excavating the roots of self-sacrifice and people-pleasing. You're uncovering patterns and masks you've worn for decades, making the hard choices and daring to live as your pinkest self. And yet… daily life still tugs you back toward a version of you that no longer fits. You’re not failing, you’re expanding beyond the identity you’ve known. Your everyday world hasn’t caught up to the Pink Flamingo you’re becoming
Those moments when your emotions take over and you react to what someone did or the same shit on a different day aren't proof that you're stuck. Your frustration isn't caused by your knee-jerk defensiveness and reactiveness. You’re frustrated because you can feel the call to the next level of identity and emotional mastery —yet you don’t have the refined tools to match it in real time. It is time to stop managing triggers and second-guessing your motivations. It's time to learn the identity and emotional fluency of your pink flamingo self so you through any moment with grace, truth and love that honors God, you AND others.
As you rise into your pinkest self, the room has to recalibrate. That's where the pushback, confusion and misunderstandings from your loved ones come from. Your pink way of being is disruptively and beautifully changing the 'old you' and the emotional and relational ecoystem you're all used to. You’re building a new standard of relationship: one for how your life, love and ways of relating looks like moving forward. It's time to learn the relational and emotional fluency of your pink flamingo self. To be the one who knows you are doing the right thing to honor the relationship and stands firm in who you are without questioning your sanity or shrinking to make anyone else comfortable, even when they keep doing what they've always done.
The “one step forward, two steps back” moments are the signature wobble of someone whose former way of being is being rewoven. Each hesitation, each drained evening, each fear of disappointing or offending, each time you feel like you're still going in circles, feeling. They’re invitations. Invitations to stand firm and act with clarity instead of guilt. To speak and live with integrity. To love without self-sacrifice or being the strong one. You’re building a new identity infrastructure that holds you steady when life pressures try to bend you back into old patterns.
Most advice and tools teach you to survive, manage your tiggers and patch yourself. You’re becoming the one whose inner world is so grounded you don’t slip into old patterns, overcorrect, or collapse under emotional pressure. You're living in a way few ever get to experience: emotionally, spiritually, relationally untethered—yet deeply anchored in who you are meant to be and how you were designed to love others. And when you step fully into the Pink Flamingo Way, every day becomes an opportunity to practice the version of yourself that God already sees.
"It helps me see the ways my people-pleasing strategies are no longer working and break the cycle, creating new pathways that feel aligned to divinity. The activities challenge you, and there's grace for it all."— K
You're ready for a life where the real you is welcomed without judgement. No more masks or armour. No more pretending to God, yourself or others. Just the relief that you are loved, known, understood and protected in the relationships that matter most.
You’re not trying to be “strong”, stoic, agreeable or endlessly available anymore. You want a life where your emotions aren’t liabilities but living indicators of your truth. A life where expressing your wants, hopes, needs, and desires feels grounding, not risky.
You want relationships where intimacy is a mutual offering, not a one-sided labor. Where trust is shared. Where support flows both ways. You want to be held at the level you hold others — with depth, truth, and devotion.
"It helps me anchor myself in the identity God gave me... showing up as my truest self. The activities are easy to do, yet very profound because they make you get still with God."— C
Join The Pink Flamingo Club today
You already know the advice you've been given is too surface-level, vague, and disconnected from the God-led way you’re trying to live. Boundaries and "self-care" sound cute until life gets real complicated and real emotions walk into the room. There’s a quiet skill your pink flamingo self has been craving… one that turns your inner world into a place of clarity, steadiness, and God-led confidence. It’s the art of loving yourself and others without collapsing into old patterns. It’s mastering the skill of allowing your boundaries, emotions, standards, and desires to flow from who God says you are… not from the pressure to perform or hold everything together. Mastering this skill requires three core pillars — the quiet architecture behind people who move and serve through fire without losing themselves:
Where you no longer wobble between who you are and who you learned to be. You show up as the person God designed, not the version shaped by expectations, survival instincts, or relational performance. Your worth steadies. Your voice and vision strengthens. Your internal compass clarifies.
Where your emotions stop feeling like sudden storms and start feeling like well-lit signals. You gain the skill to stay clear, articulate, and rooted, even when old patterns attempt to pull you back. You respond from truth and empathy instead of reacting from fear, even in hard situations.
Where you build deep relationships from a place of stewardship, not self-sacrifice. Where boundaries become extensions of clarity, not weapons or walls. Where your capacity to love expands without costing you your peace.
A faith-aligned, deeply practical way of navigating life with the kind of inner grounding that makes people wonder what you know that they don’t. This is the Pink Flamingo Way. Quietly powerful pink. Deeply anchored pink. Effortlessly real pink. And inside the Pink Flamingo Club, you practice it until it becomes the way you move through every moment.
"Whether it's in my relationship with my husband or with a friend or with my job or with my business or you know in a variety of daily living, I feel like [the Club] has been an intentional and godly way to stay the course. The activities are intentional. They do challenge you and when you are challenged, you have the opportunity to choose what you are going to do."- K
Join your flock of like-minded people
You’ve outgrown the old "grey flamingo" way. The over-functioning and being the strong one. The emotional scrambling and fragile breakthroughs. The loneliness of trying to evolve without support. You’re tired of generic advice when you’re navigating real-world moments. You want a safe haven to land, just be and be refined in solidarity with others. But you want it anchored in practical, everyday mastery — not abstract inspiration. If you’re ready to rise into the truest expression of who God designed you to be, and you want the tools and the flock to sustain it, then you already know this space is yours.
Welcome to the Pink Flamingo Club.
Are committed to breaking free from self-sacrificial patterns and a want grounded, centered life, not just inspiration
Ready to remove the mask and live consistently as your Pink Flamingo self
Crave practical guidance and blindspotters for those messy real-time moments of life
Are willing to do the inner work required to embody your highest self
Desire a safe community where you can give support AND be held
Want to pour into others while honoring yourself and God
Are looking for a quick fix, therapy or surface-level assurance
Prefer to assign blame rather than take responsibility for your growth
Aren't willing to show up vulnerably and apply the tools
Are seeking surface-level encouragement without depth or real-life application
Want to cling to self-sacrificial behaviors while complaining about results
Elevate your everyday. Step into a space designed for women and men who refuse the grey-flamingo life and are ready to pour into others without depleting themselves.
The Pink Flamingo Club isn’t theory or advice on a page. It’s your live, intimate laboratory for becoming your truest self in real life by learning what to do and how to do it in the moments that test your new identity. Here, you don’t just learn what it means to show up as your Pink Flamingo self—you practice it, with guidance, community, and God-led insight. You bridge the gap between knowing your worth and living it daily, even in the messy, high-pressure moments that used to undo you.
"I was very lost, angry, untethered - like a squirrel stuck on the freeway. Through the Club, I've found witness to my experience, the courage to look into the deep, dark corners, and honor why I became who I am. Now I feel grounded, centered, and have confidence in the woman I want to be."- A
Confidential, live, interactive gatherings where you remove the mask, explore uncomfortable truths, and stretch into the Pink Flamingo life you’ve been meant to lead. Celebrate progress, spot blindspots, and practice real-life application in a safe, witnessing environment.
A private WhatsApp space for solidarity, reflection, and support. See your experiences mirrored in others walking the same path, gain clarity in real time, and receive encouragement as you stretch into new ways of being.
Bite-sized, actionable practices to strengthen the muscle of showing up fully, consistently, and gracefully — within a safe, supportive flock.
10% of all revenue supports initiatives focused on healing the generational psychological wounds of Caribbean slavery. Your investment doesn’t just transform you — it impacts generations.
"It's a sacred space... I feel God's presence in the club. It gives me access to a spiritual home, a sisterhood... The activities are perspective shifting — like pulling up old weeds, putting in new fertilizer. And I like that community, with different women from different walks of life, you have this variety of perspectives and insight, and you realize that your personal struggle is not a unique one."- J
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Limited to just 4 flocks. A small, confidential flock of 10 women and men per session ensures real connection, immediate application, and transformative growth.
Come experience us before you commit.
Join a free Pink Flamingo Taster Flamboyance and step inside the atmosphere for yourself. If you’ve been burned by programs that gave you theory with no “how,” this is your chance to feel the difference. You’ll witness the depth, the discernment, the real-time application. You’ll see how we hold space. You’ll sense whether this flock feels like home.
YES! RESERVE MY SPOT IN THE FREE TASTER SESSION!Monthly, Thursdays 6–8pm ET. Four small flocks meet each month. You choose the one with an open seat. WhatsApp engagement runs throughout the month. Flamboyances are NOT recorded.
No. We protect intimacy and confidentiality. Your seat is held in your assigned flock. If you miss a week, your monthly focus activity inside WhatsApp keeps you moving.
Month-to-month. Cancel anytime. We exist to equip you with lifelong skills, not to lock you in. Most members stay about a year.
No. But we talk with God openly and often. You simply need to desire a life that honors God, yourself, and others.
No. Men and women walk this journey with us.
Ready to elevate how you love, lead, and live as your truest Pink Flamingo self?